Be your own self

self-love and self-respect

Speaking of the topic “be your own self”, there must be that self-love and self-respect popping out in our minds. Well, this topic is based on my thoughts about my goal to get to a point where we can fully love ourself. So I came out with this idea that to “be our own self” we got to have the courage to dream big and in a way to achieve all those crazy goals we have to put ourself first. It’s all about embracing all that you are and finding yourself.

As a (growing up) young woman, I do have my own passion. In fact, my passion and my confidence is something I must always work on and it doesn’t happen right away. It took me a lot of work and effort to be in this journey.

It took me quite a lot of self-improvement, self-reflection and all those crazy stuff.
We all know that everyone has been through that phase. So then I knew I have to always do better.

Speaking of do better, I have this story to share with you guys. One day when I was in a school reunion I met this one old friend of mine that I haven’t seen in a while and she greeted me and started telling me how different I look in a weird way as if it’s a bad thing. Well that wasn’t the problem, the problem was she then talked about how she looks at other people which I thought was still as bad as the last time I talked to her. The other thing I realized was that she didn’t really change at all nor to a better person, while I thought that she should’ve worked on herself too and ditch what’s bad for her.

That moment made me came to a realization where I think whatever you do and how good you work on yourself, people will always have something to say about it. You just have to deal with it and do you, because at the end of the day it’s your dream that matters.

There are a lot more ways to be your own woman and the answer is within you, only when you start to “do you”.

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